politeLesson 3

Making Small Talk — Senior colleague

Situation

Where
Before a meeting / in a break
Who
You and a senior colleague
Goal
To make light conversation comfortably.

Conversation

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A

It's chilly today, isn't it?

B

It is. Winter already. Did you go anywhere over the weekend?

A

I just relaxed at a local cafe. How about you, Sato-san?

B

I went shopping with my family. It was a nice change of pace.

Vocabulary (10)

hieru

to get cold

今日は冷えますね = "it's chilly today."

ikareru

to go (honorific)

Honorific of 行く about the other person.

yukkurisuru

to relax / take it easy

ゆっくりしていました.

kibuntenkan

a change of pace

気分転換になる = "to be a refresher."

shuumatsu

weekend

A safe small-talk topic.

kinjo

neighborhood

近所のカフェ = "a local cafe."

otsukaresamadesu

thank you for your work

The all-purpose workplace greeting, used like hello and goodbye between coworkers.

yoroshikuonegaishimasu

thank you in advance

Closes most requests and emails; sets a cooperative tone.

kakunin

confirmation / check

Daily-use word: ご確認お願いします means "please check."

shouchishimashita

understood (polite)

Politer than 分かりました; use with managers and clients.

Grammar

Sentence + ね

Seeks agreement, the engine of small talk: 冷えますね.

Honorific verb + ましたか

Polite question about the other's actions.

Noun + になる

Becomes: 気分転換になる = "becomes a refresher."

Cultural Notes

Workplace etiquette

Weather and weekends are safe, expected small-talk topics. Avoid politics, salary, and probing personal questions.

Common mistake

Don't skip small talk entirely before business — a little warm-up is socially expected.

Formality level

Polite. Honorific 行かれましたか shows respect even in casual chat with seniors.

Quiz

What does "冷える" mean?

What does "行かれる" mean?

What does "ゆっくりする" mean?

What does "気分転換" mean?

What does "週末" mean?

What does "近所" mean?

How is the pattern "〜ね" used?

How is the pattern "〜か行かれましたか" used?

How is the pattern "〜になる" used?

What is the goal of this conversation?

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